An interesting case of Venus in Gemini

I have a friend cum customer , whom i am quite close to because we always chat whenever there's some free time when i was working. One day, this friend of mine, can't take it anymore and burst to tears right in front of me. She told me she is contemplating suicide. She had not been sleeping well, eating well, and her weight dropped tremendously. She told me the only thing stopping her is her three lovely daughters. Basically, the next thing i would do is askin "Why?" She said her husband is playing behind her back and is very evasive and defensive. Her husband do not want to lie to her, yet makes her suffer mentally by acting dumb and mum. And so i asked for her birth details and her husband's birth details. Naturally, she avoided me and gave excuses not having it. But it didn't bother me as usual, because am not so crazy into checking everyone's charts unless necessary. After a few days, one day she came and asked me to help her to tail her husband 'now' as he is with the girl now. I rejected and told her, it's useless. So what if you know who is that? so what if you can confirm he is indeed playing behind your back? What can you do? I calmed her down and sit her beside me. "Look, just give me the damn details and i'll set up the chart right now and see" She gave me both their charts. Anyway, as I was going tru her chart, i see the transits is challenging for her. and when i look at the husband's chart...voila..now i know where the problem is. From the chart, i said, it seems like this marriage is second hand. are you his 2nd wife or is he your 2nd husband? she answered that she is his second wife. she still defend her husband as they had been together for 15 years and he provided well for the children. but she can't lose him to another woman as she had been dependant on him for finance and literally her life. So where lies the problem? Well, her husband has a venus in gemini. Most typical people with venus in gemini who do not have self realise this, will always devote himself or herself, 100% to everyone they love for it's hard for them to choose. Normal eyes see them as flirter or straying partners. I explained , yada yada yada what sort of character she is dealing with and her own character. Then i bring her down to the worldly part. I gave her some ways to this problem. Which is i believed, not many woman can take it, but she is willing to give it a try. the ways to handle a straying husband: 1) accept him as it is, tell him calmly and matter of factly without arguing, that you know he is born like this and you can understand, thus you will be there for him whenever he need you 2) give him some 'new' feeling whenever he is with you, be it from the way you dress yourself, beautify yourself, upgrade yourself in terms of personal growth and knowledge to new places you go dating, put the kids away once a week, to new stance in love making or tryin all the positions recommended in kamasutra ( this took me 1 hour to excite her , giving her something to look forward to and ditch the suicide thoughts) 3) do not ask about his other women, for you will never be the first, nor the last. as long as whenever he is back home with you, he must devote 100% of that quality time with you and or with your children. 4) Cook his meal even he is not home, just send a blardy 1 cent sms to him to inform him, but do not be disappointed if he is not able to come home and enjoy the meal. Tell him you'll be giving him a nice treat in some fancy or romantic restaurants if he is free on the weekends. for once, just treat him instead of him treating you and he'll be mesmerised in mind as well on what a change you let him felt. Just don't threaten him or tell him the kids are waiting, it's a big turn off as you know his other girls do not give him this kind of pressure. 5) treat this as a transaction for your children welfare and your own welfare. you love him, yes you still do, but winning this war of marriage with patience and love is always better than divorce and mending lonely broken hearts. 6) enhance her living skill during this period and engage in some adult classes for personal growth so her mind will be calm and know more friends that are positive influence to her. afterall, if she can accept to try save her marriage, she'll be a lot more happier knowing that she has put in the efforts and tried her best. The first positive sign she gave was, she accepted him as the way he is and talked to him amicably and stated her self, all with the points i gave her about the stance to handle a venus in gemini person. I wish her well and hope she gets more than she deserve with the efforts she's putting in for this change. Well, occasionally now, she still buy me some drinks and a pack of ciggy... :)

Astrology and sexuality

there's a night when i was chattin with a friend and i was suddenly eager to share with her what i've learnt in astrology and how i relate it back to sexuality issue. as we came to an understanding, human are androgynous. the majority of the population are straight people. and in recent years, homosexuality has emerged , in fact very vocally and openly. what i can relate and to my understanding was, the cosmic energies is always evolving. and it had come to a point where the energies has evolved and give rise to homosexuality issue on earth. the majority condemn the minority and the minority is always of lesser support and is viewed as a negative influence.

there was a time when University of Malaysia was conducting a research for the GLBT group in trying to collect information on us and synchronise our rights as human rights to be tabled to the parliament. there was also numerous discussions on whether homosexuality is a choice out of condition, or rather, are we 'nurtured' or 'natured' to this way of lifestyle.

the young me when i was asked this question, chose to ignore the question because it was an endless debate. the majority is always asserting that we are nurtured by conditions and throw all kinds of accusation to the way we want to live our life. and this minority group is being pressured and ostracized till groups are forms, unions and ngos are set up to provide us social support. but we still live the way we want it to be.

And today, tru astrology, after analysing around 80+ charts with 70+ of it all 'lesbians', i've come to a certain conclusion based on my level of understanding that homosexuality is from nature. astrology is a 6000 years of extensive research and development study and till now, it still exists and all human has some touch with it in one way or another. from astrology, the charts that i analysed revealed the person/owner of the charts what and who the 'soul' really is. the body is just a 'garment' that change while the soul is what drive the body.

From transit progressions till natal chart, till bhava and nakshatra, there are ppl who are born with it, there are ppl who after divorce from marriage with man, turn to lesbianism/homosexuality and there are ppl who are in a closet and lead a double life. All this planets gave the 'style' of their prefered sexuality, but it boils down to one single point, the chart shows they are homosexual.

i include a few chart here, which is just a 5% of the database i have for astrologers interested to read their chart. u can always ask me for feedback for the chart that u are analysing and i'll be happy to do that for you.

Meanwhile, i'll like to get in touch with my mentor Dr Agnihotri who is a Master in Astrology. He has been studying this subject for 38 years (plus a few lifetime back!) . I believe he is the best authority in this subject and i wish he can give me his opinion on this subject. pls come back for more update!

What, u wanna do magic ah?

"wei, what u doing there, counting counting what? money ah?" " no la...just studyin astrology, learning how to count when will money drop from sky lah..." " can count for me ah? i wan to know also. free rite?" " well...er...lots of work wor...but can lah..give u a bit tips loh..what's your birth details ? date,time and place?" "what, u wanna do magic ah? my mom say cannot simply give ppl one this detail after u put magic to me..." and that is an aunty telling me that! warghhh!!!! i feel like the volcanoes in me start to burn and gonna explode anytime soon and the lava gonna sprout and splash to her and smash her to smitherens! "aunty ah...if i want to do magic to u ah...i no need your birth details lah. just when u talk to me, i look into ur eyes and wink at u , u'll already be at my command, if i know! or since am smoking, i'll just blow u a puff or two at your face and u'll be handing me money like i really got money dropping from the sky!" "If u are rich and have lots of money to spend, and an easy target, i will charm u lah, or if u are a handsome boy or a pweeety gal and i want u so much, i will drop my astrology and learn voodoo or witchcraft!" oh man... i bet every starting scholar of astrology encounter that. what is the motive of u asking for a reading from an astrologer and then u are cloud with doubts whether to give ur birth details or not? don't u want an accurate reading that's just meant for u? hmm...ok maybe not everyone knows dat u have to supply this 3 information but then, if i take the trouble to study astrology just to get your birth details to cast upon u spells of unimagined horrors, why don't i just go for witchcrafts from thailand or indonesia which is easier access for me as well? siao cha por!! after one round of marketing in the market, this aunty came back.."wei...still counting ah? ok la i give u my birth details la u count for me when can buy number..." " i have to see if your life got this kind of provision or not first..." " **date **place **???? i forgot lah the time, can ah?" "cannot lahhhhhh!!! ask your mother!" (leave me aloneeeeeee i want to count my potency for the whole freaking year!!!!)