An interesting case of Venus in Gemini

I have a friend cum customer , whom i am quite close to because we always chat whenever there's some free time when i was working. One day, this friend of mine, can't take it anymore and burst to tears right in front of me. She told me she is contemplating suicide. She had not been sleeping well, eating well, and her weight dropped tremendously. She told me the only thing stopping her is her three lovely daughters. Basically, the next thing i would do is askin "Why?" She said her husband is playing behind her back and is very evasive and defensive. Her husband do not want to lie to her, yet makes her suffer mentally by acting dumb and mum. And so i asked for her birth details and her husband's birth details. Naturally, she avoided me and gave excuses not having it. But it didn't bother me as usual, because am not so crazy into checking everyone's charts unless necessary. After a few days, one day she came and asked me to help her to tail her husband 'now' as he is with the girl now. I rejected and told her, it's useless. So what if you know who is that? so what if you can confirm he is indeed playing behind your back? What can you do? I calmed her down and sit her beside me. "Look, just give me the damn details and i'll set up the chart right now and see" She gave me both their charts. Anyway, as I was going tru her chart, i see the transits is challenging for her. and when i look at the husband's chart...voila..now i know where the problem is. From the chart, i said, it seems like this marriage is second hand. are you his 2nd wife or is he your 2nd husband? she answered that she is his second wife. she still defend her husband as they had been together for 15 years and he provided well for the children. but she can't lose him to another woman as she had been dependant on him for finance and literally her life. So where lies the problem? Well, her husband has a venus in gemini. Most typical people with venus in gemini who do not have self realise this, will always devote himself or herself, 100% to everyone they love for it's hard for them to choose. Normal eyes see them as flirter or straying partners. I explained , yada yada yada what sort of character she is dealing with and her own character. Then i bring her down to the worldly part. I gave her some ways to this problem. Which is i believed, not many woman can take it, but she is willing to give it a try. the ways to handle a straying husband: 1) accept him as it is, tell him calmly and matter of factly without arguing, that you know he is born like this and you can understand, thus you will be there for him whenever he need you 2) give him some 'new' feeling whenever he is with you, be it from the way you dress yourself, beautify yourself, upgrade yourself in terms of personal growth and knowledge to new places you go dating, put the kids away once a week, to new stance in love making or tryin all the positions recommended in kamasutra ( this took me 1 hour to excite her , giving her something to look forward to and ditch the suicide thoughts) 3) do not ask about his other women, for you will never be the first, nor the last. as long as whenever he is back home with you, he must devote 100% of that quality time with you and or with your children. 4) Cook his meal even he is not home, just send a blardy 1 cent sms to him to inform him, but do not be disappointed if he is not able to come home and enjoy the meal. Tell him you'll be giving him a nice treat in some fancy or romantic restaurants if he is free on the weekends. for once, just treat him instead of him treating you and he'll be mesmerised in mind as well on what a change you let him felt. Just don't threaten him or tell him the kids are waiting, it's a big turn off as you know his other girls do not give him this kind of pressure. 5) treat this as a transaction for your children welfare and your own welfare. you love him, yes you still do, but winning this war of marriage with patience and love is always better than divorce and mending lonely broken hearts. 6) enhance her living skill during this period and engage in some adult classes for personal growth so her mind will be calm and know more friends that are positive influence to her. afterall, if she can accept to try save her marriage, she'll be a lot more happier knowing that she has put in the efforts and tried her best. The first positive sign she gave was, she accepted him as the way he is and talked to him amicably and stated her self, all with the points i gave her about the stance to handle a venus in gemini person. I wish her well and hope she gets more than she deserve with the efforts she's putting in for this change. Well, occasionally now, she still buy me some drinks and a pack of ciggy... :)

Astrology and sexuality

there's a night when i was chattin with a friend and i was suddenly eager to share with her what i've learnt in astrology and how i relate it back to sexuality issue. as we came to an understanding, human are androgynous. the majority of the population are straight people. and in recent years, homosexuality has emerged , in fact very vocally and openly. what i can relate and to my understanding was, the cosmic energies is always evolving. and it had come to a point where the energies has evolved and give rise to homosexuality issue on earth. the majority condemn the minority and the minority is always of lesser support and is viewed as a negative influence.

there was a time when University of Malaysia was conducting a research for the GLBT group in trying to collect information on us and synchronise our rights as human rights to be tabled to the parliament. there was also numerous discussions on whether homosexuality is a choice out of condition, or rather, are we 'nurtured' or 'natured' to this way of lifestyle.

the young me when i was asked this question, chose to ignore the question because it was an endless debate. the majority is always asserting that we are nurtured by conditions and throw all kinds of accusation to the way we want to live our life. and this minority group is being pressured and ostracized till groups are forms, unions and ngos are set up to provide us social support. but we still live the way we want it to be.

And today, tru astrology, after analysing around 80+ charts with 70+ of it all 'lesbians', i've come to a certain conclusion based on my level of understanding that homosexuality is from nature. astrology is a 6000 years of extensive research and development study and till now, it still exists and all human has some touch with it in one way or another. from astrology, the charts that i analysed revealed the person/owner of the charts what and who the 'soul' really is. the body is just a 'garment' that change while the soul is what drive the body.

From transit progressions till natal chart, till bhava and nakshatra, there are ppl who are born with it, there are ppl who after divorce from marriage with man, turn to lesbianism/homosexuality and there are ppl who are in a closet and lead a double life. All this planets gave the 'style' of their prefered sexuality, but it boils down to one single point, the chart shows they are homosexual.

i include a few chart here, which is just a 5% of the database i have for astrologers interested to read their chart. u can always ask me for feedback for the chart that u are analysing and i'll be happy to do that for you.

Meanwhile, i'll like to get in touch with my mentor Dr Agnihotri who is a Master in Astrology. He has been studying this subject for 38 years (plus a few lifetime back!) . I believe he is the best authority in this subject and i wish he can give me his opinion on this subject. pls come back for more update!

What, u wanna do magic ah?

"wei, what u doing there, counting counting what? money ah?" " no la...just studyin astrology, learning how to count when will money drop from sky lah..." " can count for me ah? i wan to know also. free rite?" " well...er...lots of work wor...but can lah..give u a bit tips loh..what's your birth details ? date,time and place?" "what, u wanna do magic ah? my mom say cannot simply give ppl one this detail after u put magic to me..." and that is an aunty telling me that! warghhh!!!! i feel like the volcanoes in me start to burn and gonna explode anytime soon and the lava gonna sprout and splash to her and smash her to smitherens! "aunty ah...if i want to do magic to u ah...i no need your birth details lah. just when u talk to me, i look into ur eyes and wink at u , u'll already be at my command, if i know! or since am smoking, i'll just blow u a puff or two at your face and u'll be handing me money like i really got money dropping from the sky!" "If u are rich and have lots of money to spend, and an easy target, i will charm u lah, or if u are a handsome boy or a pweeety gal and i want u so much, i will drop my astrology and learn voodoo or witchcraft!" oh man... i bet every starting scholar of astrology encounter that. what is the motive of u asking for a reading from an astrologer and then u are cloud with doubts whether to give ur birth details or not? don't u want an accurate reading that's just meant for u? hmm...ok maybe not everyone knows dat u have to supply this 3 information but then, if i take the trouble to study astrology just to get your birth details to cast upon u spells of unimagined horrors, why don't i just go for witchcrafts from thailand or indonesia which is easier access for me as well? siao cha por!! after one round of marketing in the market, this aunty came back.."wei...still counting ah? ok la i give u my birth details la u count for me when can buy number..." " i have to see if your life got this kind of provision or not first..." " **date **place **???? i forgot lah the time, can ah?" "cannot lahhhhhh!!! ask your mother!" (leave me aloneeeeeee i want to count my potency for the whole freaking year!!!!)

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Resolved QuestionScorpio in venus and mars?wat does it mean?1 week ago
Report It by o_scarla... Member since: December 18, 2007 Total points: 133 (Level 1) Best Answer - Chosen by Voters
it means venus and mars in this scorpio sign, mars in scorpio, passionate, venus in scorpio, sexual athlete...means u are a passionate sexual athlete!1 week ago

Hindu priest suicide - to proof reincarnation exist by an extremist

Raipur, Dec 24 - A three-day 'miracle' drama in Chhattisgarh's industrial town of Raigarh ended Monday afternoon after a Hindu priest, who had committed suicide promising to return to life within 72 hours of his death, was cremated. Hundreds of people had laid siege around the body of 25-year-old Manoj Baghel, who ended his life Saturday by consuming poison at a temple in Raigarh, about 200 km northeast of state capital Raipur. Baghel had claimed that he would come back to life. 'The miracle drama is now over as the people, who had surrounded the body of the dead priest to witness the rebirth, handed over the corpse to the police for post-mortem Monday afternoon,' J.K. Thorate, superintendent of police in Raigarh, told IANS. The people had surrounded the temple where the body was kept in a locked room and were refusing to hand it over to the police, expecting the priest to come back to life by late Monday. 'They lost all hope of rebirth of the priest,' the police officer said. The police have registered a case of suicide. Thorate said after post-mortem, the body was handed over to the priest's father, Ram Prasad Baghel, a farmer, who cremated his only son. The young priest was rushed to a district hospital after he consumed poison. He was then referred to a private hospital where he died. Baghel's relatives later brought his body back to the temple, where a huge crowd had gathered to witness the are birth miracle'. This is a news excerpt from the star paper and also from the yahoo news online. I came across this piece of news when i was doing some diligent study on reincarnation and the Truths. Truths have many layers (as my master had put it). it exist within all of us, and those who seeks shall find it not far from themselves. To get to the 'Truth', all one has to do is 'self realisation'. Self realisation is another big topic with many layers of truth laden on it. to be able to know about oneself and realise where this one self come from, it will be awakening. my master always say he sees us student as sparks of life. what is this spark of life? it is the soul, and the soul is our consciousness and consciousness is intelligence+ego+mind. so what it got to do with me studying vedic astrology under my master? apparently, to know myself and self-realisation. but when i really bury my nose in his teachings, i suddenly realise there are many layers to what he is teaching. this is because, truth has many layers and u need to peel it layer by layer to fully understand it, and return to where u come from. U came from a few thousands of birth life, in different forms , in different body. to understand the truth, one need to understand that this body is just a vehicle, or just a piece of cloth where u'll be changing it after it gets old. when u transcend from this body to another body in any forms, only your consciousness is with u.thus a spark of life, injected along the sperm to the ovum. with this consciousness, if u have not been able to learn from your past experience or resolve the past issues, you bring along the energies and the waiting to fruitive cosmic energies with u to this life...karma. as the saying, when u leave, all u bring along with you are your sins and good deeds. u chosed to be born on that day and that hour when the celestial rays are in mathematical harmony with your individual karma. The horoscope is a map revealing your unchangeable past and its probable future results. The chart shows what we are now because of what we have thought and done in the past. Astrology, by providing us with a blueprint of our attachments, problems, talents, and mental tendencies, offers us a way of not only realizing in a specific sense of what our karma is, and helping us work with these confrontations within and without, but also a way of beginning to rise above and gain a perspective on this karma. and to rise above this karma, which is for never again be reborn and go tru the same birth and death cycle, is to be awakened,enlightened. Bear in mind, the astrology chart do not have a section on 'this is the past chart and it's like this, this section is for the future lives since your present configuration is like this....' It is just a probable, a blueprint and the future life is in your present hand. the only way to relieve yourself from life u've been calling now is never to be born again, don't come back, shoo...use your free will well.. And the way to do it, as recorded in the scriptures, are meditations and to keep the mind in its pure form. or shall i say, to clean the mind / consciousness. The scriptures has given a lot of ways actually for one to return to the blissful heaven. to return to the path to God. this is because, god, is a greater spark of life and we are actually one with him but we choose to be away from him to satisfy our own senses. thus, being the ever loving god, we get what we wanted and we have a body (a body that suits our need). (hmm, i wish master can teach me meditation.. :P) take for example astrology, or jyotish. it is a divine tool indicated in the vedas scriptures. all human life forms , in this whole earth, have a blueprint. and with this jyotish knowledge, we know that everyone's chart is different and unique, just like fingerprints. imagine this astrology as the tree trunk. and from there u'll see it's branches and leaves. it consists of other studies which has already evolved as it's own, example feng shui , numerology, palmistry etc. suppose i say , the leaves then should be 'religion'. the five major religions , namely hindu,islam,buddhist,judaism and christianity, has similar background and concepts. And they all point back to the Truth. and they all as recorded in their holy book, there are reincarnations, god and they never teach their believers to do bad things. but why the difference of the sect? why is there difference of sect in the major religions itself? the basic fundamentals of religion is the same, it is just a doctrine to control behaviours in moral terms to keep the world in order. same like a country needs laws to keep things in order. have u ever notice the 3 big religion in malaysia, namely islam, buddhist and hindu, when they observe their big holy events? the span of time is almost the same. just, different terms, different styles of worship. So this brings down to me, religion, being the moral branch lead by the guru, is also a way to the Truth. but this is tricky. is the guru, namely messenger of god, delivering the truth to the disciples in way where the truths is not altered? is the guru, has his own agenda or selfish gain?are the disciples, among themselves, have other versions of what it is suppose to be? and thus the politicking of religions and misuse of the knowledge to garner for himself power, fame and wealth and thus wars erupting with religions as an excuse? is the disciples, the commoner, understand what is the truth that is being preached? in this world, words are treasured because it is words, documented and can be read by generations upon generations. but in modern age, how many times of this words , carrying the truths, has been printed and reprinted and reprinted? how many ppl can testify if the words u are reading from some buddhist books are the truths, the universal truth? because as religion is just a moral police headquarter, a dogma to keep things in order, how many religious ppl really understand themselves and get transcend to neverland, or pure land , and this pure land also got divide between west and east? (this is a joke as i go tru the buddhist books am reading) The buddhist also has this saying, put down your butcher knife and be a buddha instantly. this saying alone has many meanings. to some, it could be, if u repent your ways, u'll be enlightened and go to heaven straight away . to some, it is very unfair because this fella had been killing ppl all this while and yet instantly can be buddha just by putting down the knife. to me, it means, thou this person has been committing the sins, but if he repent, his consciousness received pureness like a newly born child and resolve his karma, he is enlightened and will be given a new chance again. for god is mercy and loving. how bout someone who has been religious and pious, but if he commit sins till the last moment of his death, he haven't repent? then probably he'll have to undergo rebirth again, with new karmic agenda for future lives. Back to the news excerpt above, the hindu priest suicide himself just to prove that reincarnation exists and he can come back to his body within 3 days. This to me, is half knowledge. The scriptures already stated with enough proof, long before science want to conduct experiments on soul searching, that reincarnation exists and jyotish is a skill left to humans to use for understanding their true form, 2ndly, suicide is ending a life prematurely, before the time has come as in blueprint. and of course, that's 'free will' , he is indeed goin far end to prove a point. which is the dead end. but to his karmic agenda, this priest will not be able to come back to his body, cuz i think, after 3 days, what use is the body? it'll be rotten. the six senses has already gone from the body. and at another world, probably servants of lord of death and servants of lord will be debating where to put him. probably they will be sayin, since u wanna test the scriptures, might as well u go back to the cycle and reborn again and study again. (tskkk tskkk....). and what good it brings if he really did indeed can come back? is he can rejoice and be egoistic that he has walked to the other world and come back? and be a living proof to other human that if u do like me, then probably if u don't like this body, u can come back and choose a new one, INSTANTLY. then i wouldn't mind choosing avril lavigne as a substitute. probably this hindu priest, has already 'jau for yap mor' , meaning, study till mad . probably, just probably, maybe someone should tell him, to get this out of body experience, u can do it in dreams or meditations, without using the harsh way to the body. afterall, this body is what i chose before i was reborn, to be able to reincarnate in a human body, is very fortunate because we are all given a chance and the intelligence to rectify past issues, awaken our spirituality, and at the same time, resolve our karma for future lifes till one day , we can walk back to the loving arms of the big Spark! hmm....is meditation course available?

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Resolved Question
My Sun,Venus,Mars are all Capricorn 5th House: How would u define my personality/profile?
I'm also cusp Jan 19 (Cap/Aquarius) with high but limited levels of attraction to men with air signs. Was married 14 years but found myself attracted to other men, got bored with marriage and staying home full-time with kids. I've read that a strong 5th house presence (I have 4 major planets in house 5) loves family, home and children yet in limited amounts and maybe that's me?? Trying to figure myself out...thanks for your input. Signed, "Confused"
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Also have moon in cancer house 11 which helps offset some strong Capricorn and Aquarius in my natal chart.

by o_scarlai
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hi,having venus in 5th house capricorn, or shall i say, having venus in capricorn, it's almost always u will encounter failure in love appeasant. it's very hard to satisfy you in love, for you , emotionally, need a lot of commitment and assurance from ur partner that he loves u. that person have to know the strategy to keep you appeased. moon in own sign, all 11th hse issues is protected from harm and also emotionally, thou u are protected as well, but still with venus in capricorn, u find most of the ppl that u love, later u are not satisfied with them. ve+mars in 5th hse, separation from love. sun+mars in 5th hse, love passion strong, fiery, and if too fiery (depend on transiting planets) will also lead to separations in all 5th hse matters.
Regards
Oscar

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So what's with me and this blog talkin bout astrology? well, it's what am learning now, pursuing truth with Full Force! Actually i've been wanted to start this blog earlier, but because of one thing or another, I didn't start soon. And now that i'm quite confident in starting this, I've been losing sleep just to set up the stuffs here. This is just my space to talk bout this fav subject of mine and whatever views i have bout it, be it distorted views, contemplating bout the truth in it, what my master taught me, and of course...any muse on it in my head. I like to link astrology with my surroundings...so if some time tru this blog u found some stuffs to be offensive...leave...i never did ask u to continue reading! (this is me...downright honest to a pierce)

One thing which came really true, from my Master is, astrology is a subject which had gone tru 6000 years of intensive R&D. beautiful model, and it's always right. probably the interpreter will be wrong in some occasion, but then, it has stand the test of time!

look at this! this is a news excerpt, reflecting some 'insight' into the medical line , in Msia!!

As reported in New Straits Times:
KUALA LUMPUR: Medical mistakes happen, no matter how careful the doctors are, Health Minister Datuk Seri Dr Chua Soi Lek said yesterday.“Even in the best hospitals in the world, mistakes still happen. In Malaysia, the rate is between three and five per cent, which is acceptable,” he said after launching the National AIDS conference.
Chua said government hospitals treated about 39 million outpatients as well as some 1.9 million admissions each year.
“We can imagine that even in the best situations some mistakes will still happen.”
He said patients who were not satisfied with the services provided by government hospitals could lodge complaints.“We give a guarantee that if there is a basis for a complaint, it will be investigated by a committee comprising experts from the private sector to increase their confidence.
“In the case that happened in Klang, we don’t understand why there was so much publicity.
“If they are not satisfied with our service, then why come to our hospital? They came on Nov 26. According to logic, if you don’t have confidence in our doctors, then why come?”
He said the parents had to be rational.
“Whatever mistakes that happened, we have already admitted it publicly and apologised. We are sincere in doing what is best,” he said.
In the Klang case, a man is suing the government for RM2 million over a bungled hospital procedure that resulted in the amputation of his baby’s forearm.

This is the darndest thing that can happen , to your life! and imagine, while in the theatre room, during your operation, u heard this "uh-oh...what is that? can u get me my reference note missy?"

Trust astrology, not yourself, not even your doctor nowadays as considerably most of them with some exceptions are just more focus on their selfish gain instead of your life. And fyi, this baby is only gettin 60k as compensation for her whole life, luckily her parents reject it. Of course...payin millions for some unbuilt bridge, but pay measly for a life's worth...datuk chua says the darndest thing too to save himself!