What is a soulmate?

Almost every time, people wonder if the gal next door or the guy next seat is the One or not. Is dat person my soulmate? U wonder. Me n her is now in a r/ship, a marriage, in co-habiting, we've joined in soul n body (or hips literally) but still, the question is this...could he/she be my soulmate?

so b4 we go further, let us examine why is this question necessary in the first place? all human fundamental needs are the same. beside other obvious wants/needs, having found the One in love is the most fundamental one. we all need someone to love us, be there for us, clean up our lazy mess, a shoulder to cry on in private and what not. The root fundamental of this question is of course, depending on some ppl, "is she the last one am gonna spend the rest of my life with?" which is most almost equivalent to the question "is she my soulmate?" . That is actually the most basic root reason for asking about soul mate.

Everyone hopes to find true love, pure love and forever love. Some people will be happy if they haf found their soulmate. and some ppl might not be so happy because that spells the end of having a few r/ships in the lifetime. and some ppl trodding down the road with their soulmate, suddenly found the grass is greener on the other side and dump this once a soulmate for someone new after so much have been work out for. then this someone new will now be the new soulmate.

So with the way things are now, wouldn't soulmate be a very cheap word already?? Almost turning around the corners, there lies your potential soulmate. So what is soulmate? in idealistic way, soulmate is suppose to be someone that you can spend the rest of your life with. Of course, someone that gives what your soul yearns for. Someone you can go through anything together till the end. Till death do us apart. Some that pumps up your life, give your soul appeasement and mutually supporting each other from all levels. The 'no matter what happens' comes into play.

Some "laws" governing soulmate, Opposite attracts, u both argue like mad and there is not a common ground of interest, but still you feel that he is your soul mate. The sameness relates, both of u feel so right together, everything is in common from your taste of food to the ways on bed, u feel u can't be separated because of the commonness, even thinking alike and talking the same accent can drive u crazy. So much for the word and so much for commercialism, the word soul mate had been cheaply used.

so what does astrology have in store for u? is there really a soulmate reading in astrology? the answer is yes and no. It really depends on how u want to use the soulmate word and your perception. I don't really believe in soul mate or finding the one. This is because astrology have always proved to me that you are only compatible or have the synastry with someone because you happen to be at the right time at the right place, and of course, the interlinked destiny you both have together and the fruitation of karmic seeds. Some unfinished business that need to be finished or continue by this life. sometimes, you don't even know who 'owe' who first in the context of karma. but astrology can reveal how well or bad your r/ship patterns will turn out. how both of ur energy can be used or should be used to sustain the r/ship. How your actions can make the r/ship lasting or break. How both of u relate to each other emotionally and even, physically.

In vedic astrology, by accessing the moon and your partner, u can see how both relate in mind and emotion. what are the karmic cause? accessing the planets venus and mars can give an idea how the sex style appeal to each other. accessing the lagnas can see how both blend together and give each other support, who will be the receiving end and the giver or the one that need to sacrifice. accessing house by house can see what are the areas that are weak and not. And, anyone can be your soulmate. because the real context of soulmate lies within the values and not on the person and the role they play in real. it is all about how both of u relate to each other and what are the approach that u use and give your soul a sense of belonging.

but anyway, now, your best friend can also be your soul mate. and with how the world trend is turning out, your pets can be your soul mate, your private telephone friend can be your soul mate, your email pal can also be your soul mate. your fuck buddy can be your soul mate, your enemy can also be your soul mate. so what is the real context of soulmate? if life is on a constant change, shouldn't soul mate be on a change as well? of course...your soul mate can and will leave u one day. the only solace is how the memories stick and the imprints are left at your heart, and how both of u have manage the journey of love together.

soulmate, or soulmade ... made for soul? u can marry your wife now only to discover your soulmate is still living out there waiting for u. and here u have to decide whether to go for it and break up ur own family.or had it been commercialize by the love industry? the rule of thumb thou...appreciate what you have and give all ur best to this one person whom u have called soulmate b4...and let go gracefully if the time is up. astrology can only help u make a right choice by letting u know the outcome of your choices. The choices that u make reflect your maturity and wisdom in choosing for the best of all parties involved.

Free workshop for Mystical Exercise this 6th June 2010

"Harnessing the power of the cosmic for health improvement." This Mystical Shengong Exercise is not religious centric, thus it is suitable to be practice by anyone regardless of race, age and ethnic. Health or even disease do not recognise your skin colour! 

This exercise is so simple and easy yet not many people are aware of it because it appears so easy that you don't even believe that it will help in your health. However, unbelievable results have been experienced in just one week by those who knows. It is suitable for anyone in any condition, most beneficial to people who are experiencing health discomfort as well. 

You can even do it while you are sitting, lying down (for ppl bedridden) or standing. Learning this simple steps in an hour can change your life for the better. You can even help your friends or family members who are not feeling well right now. Just an hour and you got nothing to lose for health is irreplaceable when the clock ticks. 

Highly suitable for people with blood pressure problem, heart/chest problem, sinus/migraine/flu symptoms, nerves/joint problems, kidney/pancreas/diabetes/sugar level problem, smokers/alcoholics/DRUG/pills addicts and of course, people who think they are healthy! *Location will be let known once you confirm/register through your facebook account.

Fast tips to identify problem area in a Vedic chart

I am excited. I know I will meet some blunders and more blunders, but i am ready for the blunders. am not so technical savvy, the best i know is type and type away. When something goes wrong, i holla to some sexy programmer to give me tips.

Anyhow, this june month is an important month for soul circles. and the months after it's going to be hectic months as well. i will have to breath soul circles, talk soul circles, eat soul circles, walk soul circles and everything soul circles. what d hell is this soul circles? yeah...it's just my small venture on astrology and healing consultations and courses thingy. but am excited. even before i have it on, there is already someone interested to join with me and dat guy is no other than one of my student who i have met only once. it sort of restore my confidence in a way, at which ideas can be turned into actions and how naivety can somewhat be noble. However, am still keeping any JV at KIV.

I am still on freelancing, so let me go tru the experience of freelancing and appreciate my maggi mee creations for supper, gardenia sandwich bread creation and home made nasi goreng when i've no calls and stay home to do my works. It is truly an experience, thou i have gone down lower than that during younger times. i want to keep my foot grounded as well as learn humility. besides, am still learning and am not a master, there's so much to learn and i can't wait to share it with ppl who are on the same mindset with me!

Ok, taking this post as one of a reply to one email to me last month, the question was how to identify problem areas in a vedic chart? Hmm, i have some fast tips here. it is sort of like a quick glance. the first glance, first impression, first look.

1) when u open up and look at the chart for the first time, look as a whole. as in, look at the whole 12 houses.

2) Identify which house have the most clusters of planets together, never mind the degrees first. this will be the 'busy' area. it means, the matters in the house that it signifies will be the person most busy and challenging area. doesn't matter whether good or bad. he'll be busy with it.

3) now look at the planets combination, the fastest would be, is it a killer combination? or a good combination of mutual support? if there are 3 planets and above, look at the middle planet, what is the story it is trying to tell u?

4) look for Sa+Mo, different predictions for SaR+Mo as well, but don't worry about that, just see where issit located if there is. And if there isn't, ke+mo is the next one. and then go on with other combination.

5) Determine where the transiting planets are for the fiscal year. Is native going tru any challenging period? Look for sade sati with t.sat and natal moon.

6) confirm with Vimshottari dasa period, what is the native going to experience?

7) gochara/transits are quick ways. Vimshottari dasa is to confirm and vice versa. if u can work with this 2 way beautifully, (provided u have rectify the chart or the time of birth is accurate) then ur predictions will be very accurate.

8) next u can look at the dustana houses, and also use the universal chart as a backdrop for the dustana houses to see how it relates.

9) try not to rationalize too much and stick to your chart reading. eg: person is well to do and happy always, but u see problems at marriage house. don't rationalize, as in, couldn't be...she's happy...how can her marriage be a problem? just read as it is and stick to your chart. if u put in ur own judgement, you will never get to read a chart accurately. try separate your own judgement from the person's life and read it as it is.

and lastly, feedback...feedback...feedback! feedback from ur customers is the best way for u to know where ur prediction skills is and where u have to improve. if u are still learning, don't be shy to admit that there are certain things u don't know how to read yet, because if u fake it, ur customer is the one that is going to be the victim of ignorance and bad advice. be humble and u will learn more from ur customers. everyone is a teacher!

Give me more time for study

am overwhelmed with studies. on top of dat am overwhelmed with works. if according to the ancient texts dat we can actually activate a certain nadi in our brain or system to unleash the subconsciousness of the knowledge record stored so that we will automatically know the subjects by hand...pls, i want to activate dat for all astrology in d world to be at the palm of my hand. this process however, will take many many years of acquiring. means, we can activate our nadi but it takes years to perfect dat becuz of the human conditioning now. once we activate it, we can access the library at that other plane and get whatever knowledge direct from the source of the knowledge pool up there. but i know there's one 'easier' way, however it still takes some years. so i might as well spend my years studying the traditional way, with my head buried in the books, or if one day i can't take it, i'll boil all the books or burn it to d ground and eat it..(DAMN it). literally i've been sleeping with books on my bed, under my bed and such, for i read b4 i sleep no matter how tired, so dat's why i sleep with them. (one good thing to this habit is i know i'll never go and sleep at somebody's place, or i will never sleep with anyone , for i just sleep with books... (hahaha...just kidding) now i can confirm dat sleeping with books under the pillow do not let u absorb them much. u just feel bad waking up later n knowing u didn't finish d pages. not to mention am one slowwww reader. it means, whatever i read, i likes to make notes on it. and when i at last check on it and can't apply anything, i throw away the notes that was painstakingly made in the first place. i can't stop comparing the books/notes on the same subject over and over with unlimited access. because, too many authors, too many thoughts, want to find out if it works. so i can't stop HOARDING on the notes, until when it's time, i need to clear my room of papers and throw them in the dustbin. fussy note maker...i make them as from contents, 2nd round..i make them from the notes i just written for shorter version...and then, i read from shorter version and refer back to the longer version, and then i read back the book for the original version. and then, i transfer the notes to the big notebook, and then, i type them out to my pc, and then i redo again in a better way to read. and then, halfway in the process, i might throw the notes all away becuz of many reasons from unpractical theories, to i don't like my own writing, to i found a better nicer notebook. how to progress like this? i still have about, sigh...i think at least about 10,000 pages of astrology stuffs i haven't finish. and my study rack of other books, ranging from many topics. Why do i even read in the first place? becuz after so many readings, it's just d same thing, nothing excite me, for it all boils down to the same thing. so am i a hoarder reader or a fussy reader? i guess am a hoarder. now who on earth will pray for more time on earth so he can finish up all the books dat he haven't finish? i know of a guy dat do this, my mom did that, and i guess now i am gonna include this prayer into mine as well! (including activating dat part of the brain for all knowledge to absorb in like osmosis...actually i have osmosis learning since young, but not powerful enough after i got my bad car accident) :(

Coming Wednesday 4D number prediction for toto only

something is gonna happen between now to this wednesday.... i can't pinpoint what yet! so thurs am gonna see the news/papers or whatever. Indication of death on big scale? or indication of something gonna blow up? or maybe something to do with the royal kingdom of kelantan??? something to do with homeland. something to do with illness, hospitalization n death. >_< Ah....am just suffering from brain drain...anyway...... i just have a very nice dream and my son was playing in the dream with me. caught some numbers, but i can't play myself as usual. so i'll just post it up here n whoever see this can buy if they have no idea what number to buy for this week wednesday. don't bet so big alrite for it's from dream. 2999 1112 5062 6052 good luck!

Happy Mother's Day

It doesn't take you much to just wish your Mom Happy Mother's Day on this special day. Although it had been commercialized to such an expensive treat, get creative and give that first woman of yours the love she deserves. You don't have to just wish her on just this day. You do it through actions every day. Whatever it is, besides all the things she had done for you and things you wished she never interfere with, she's still the one that will be there for you no matter what happen. So give yourself out to her. If not everyday, just this one day ! Happy Mother's Day!

Jupiter transits to Pisces 2nd May 2010

oh oh oh oh yeah....what am i thinking!? someone asked in ma mail why is it that i did not come out with a post on what will happens to all the signs when jupiter transits to pisces yesterday but i wrote on world cup in digression some more! >_

Going back to the basics in life

Do u realize, among all the religions, teachings , communities, people and such, where ideas and perceptions plays a part in us, all the differences that segregate people into different groups and having their own morally righteous code of conduct or not, these differences are played to the point of extremes and further divide humanity away from the very core truths of natural laws? 

Example, the differences of teachings in religions had sparked wars. the differences in opinions among ppl and communities had sparked great division and incite hatred and all the bullshits in the world. it's because of the 'differences' that had been macro and microscope on through the lenses of the extreme teachings of rights and wrongs. why can't they focus on the sameness? 

Ok...opposite attracts really. opposite = oppositions. and oppositions don't work well unless u r connected on a common ground/elements. what bout focusing on fundamental laws that works? natural laws that we know subconsciously which had been implanted in our natural awareness since creation that is fundamentally good and won't change? 

Example we all know being faithful is fundamentally good compare to infidelity. we all know kindness is fundamentally good to being mean. we all know understanding or compassion is fundamentally good compare to being cruel. something like going back to the basics of goodness and create peace. or something like going back to the basis of teachings that are good? 

Digh...what is Oscar thinking? i think i just prefer a simple basic life dat don't have lots of dramas. U need to go tru some hell of dramas to be able to want n desire a basic life without dramas. Because without that extremities, u won't know dat it's much fun with the basics. so say no to wars and say yes to peace...and WORLD CUP SPIRIT! the only event (other than Olympics) that can stop wars and bring people together! woot!

The type of clients I have in astrology

Most people, majority of people that I know, including own family, have this one thing in common. which is, whenever there is a problem arise, they turn to whatever they can get their hands on for solutions. they turn to astrology when they have problems, and they deny astrology when they are out of it.

I have met many people who hurl criticism to me saying am doing hodge podge science when they can't even make a difference between astrology and palmistry. They love to extend their palm to me and ask me to see after they throw the critics and when I say I don't know palmistry, they laugh as if they know best, that the critics they gave were correct. Sometimes they are the one that came running back to me after some time and ask me to read them their birth chart, sometimes they peek at what am doing when I study and try to extend their PALM again. I just kept QUIET and give them a big smile. 

It had been years like that since I started studying serious astrology, and this big smile saved me from a lot of pressuring to do some proofing business. I don't need to prove that astrology works, it do works. Just that there are a lot of deep and profound works behind that I don't think I can explain to someone who can't differentiate a thing. Anyhow, when I study, it makes me an anti social, for I don't have much luxurious time to spend debating or explaining.

I'll do that when am free. I have got no time for tv movies, my source of news came from internet and paper, am sleep deprived, am going through a big transition in my life and I've my hands on many things to keep my sane life going.

But one of the best faces that I've seen...are these and I think more of them will be coming for me when I fully open my door....

The denial - 'I don't have a problem', but still keep asking and asking and asking and says no prob

The attention seeker - 'I have a problem, I have many problems actually, listen to me and listen everyday' and they keep calling u 24 hours with the same problem

The worrier - ' I think I have these problems' and still worries about them despite there really
isn't much to worry about

The no problem - ' I don't have a problem...but...' they in fact are the problems of the problem, but they do not want to face it and still keep coming to u for their problems and while taking pleasure in listening, they do no actions to take care of their problems. I wonder how they survive in the mess they are living.

The opportunistic - this I met today as well while thinking of posting this... 'I don't believe in all this la..but give me your name card, I intro to my friends and I want to earn some commission can?' Can...no problem, I don't mind as long as I can give u some help financially through my service but how can u intro to ur friends when u urself don't like astrology?? 'Am a good salesman!' =_=!

Last and not least, the best ones that I've met -
The positive thinker - ' I have a prob and I want to explore the solutions' , gave them, analyzed and use where necessary and very happy to have a new perspective

The one solution thinker - ' I have a prob n I want the solution'. Gave them, take all of it and use, and come back, anymore u left? Anymore u not yet tell me? Anymore details? I need to know , rice or porridge tonite depend on u! I still have many problems I not yet tell u! Actually the only solution
they are looking for is the 4D numbers or lottery numbers that can once and for all solve all their problems!

What type are u? I myself is definitely the one solution thinker. ;)

My 'idiotic' attempt at Sade Sati - (don't do it, no..lol)

An interesting man came to be my indirect teacher. He came as an indirect disciple of a Tamil Siddhar lineage under Sri Nandeeswarar Siddhar. He has shared the cosmic secrets that i've sort of SWEAR not to divulge to the public as it can be misused for commercialism purpose. So in this few months of knowing him, i've sort of piece together my own searching for answers i can only find through some past life regression. Just some interesting stuffs where i can't even confirm if it's true for we're not suppose to remember the past.

i came from the nanda dynasty, a kingdom that exist in ancient india which had been overtaken by alexander the great. while in this kingdom, i serve as the queen's royal doctor and i've also researched on healings and at the same time do a lot of killings of the unborn. a lot of the knowledge had been lost when the kingdom is gone, and am now only left with an untapped subconsious that certain knowledge only come back as bit and pieces and i've to tap on the cosmic pool of knowlege, if am lucky i get to access. if am not, am left with a tired mind spelling 'stupid idiot dumb dumb fella'

so now, at my another idiotic attempt to test some out of the world not in text books spoonfed knowledge, or so called 'oscar's dream up theories', i got some immediate remedies yet not so easy to perform 'stunts' for remedying a sade sati cycle. So if u r a vedic enthusiastic, or an astrologer for vedic branch, or even, someone afflicted with sade sati which is the dreaded 7 and a 1/2 years of badddddd luck...take heart...this remedy might work in some way in general, as individual chart remedy will be the real answer.

Sade sati is when transiting saturn move in to your moon sign from the 12th. so say, your moon sign is in libra, and transiting saturn is in virgo, so that is the beginning of your sade sati. it ends when it passes on to scorpio at some good degrees, so to speak. most ppl come consulting an astrologer after the first 2 1/2 years. because the 5th year will be the worst of the worst they can take. some strong characters will consult to an astrologer when they have slightly pass the 5th year. 

Some lucky enough will consult before or the beginning of the cycle. This also depends on the individual chart, and whether that person will take on the full cycle or not, which cycle of sade sati it is and in what constellations the planets are in. so basically, this remedy is a very general remedy for the whole topic of sade sati.

i stress...take it if u like, u got nothing to lose, leave it if u like, u still got nothing to lose... for the tone here is...am in my that mood which is kind of hard for me to explain my mind.

So let's say, a perfect human life is a 120 years. with all the rubbish we're feeding ourselves, smelling in and etc, we have grossly put ourselves at 80 if ur lucky just break it apart. 2.5+2.5+2.5.

Anyway, since it's a karmic cause, so how does karma operate? i don't have a mechanism or a set of rules for it, for karma is not for naked eyes. but it do manufacture some part of ur destiny. my point here is, HOW it operates? u can't see it, u can't touch it, u can only scold, karma is a bitch. there's only 1 rule thou, and it's balance. u put in the bad, u have to balance back on the good, or it just gets heavier, u put in the good, u have to balance back on the bad, or u just snapped for being a saint too bored. human being human, let's face it, u can't be all good and not bad, so the way to it is balancing, unless u r some superhuman yogi. So think about it, when it happens, what hit first? ur body. ur mind. ur emotion. when ur this three thing is hurt, ur soul is tormented, and there, u pay ur karmic debts.

so in a simple process, u divide karma into another 3 part of karma. 1st) u can't change 2) u can change, just more more more hard work. 3) u can change easily said than done by controlling the 5 senses that let karma take shape.

when it operates, it goes tru ur bloodline and dna and brings the condition to ur physical world. so now u break it to 2.5 + 2.5 + 2.5

the first 2.5 - control ur mouth
speak no evil, eat no bad stuff, drink no rubbish.if u have not give ur parents n grandparents enough care and respect, do it before it's too late, at least talk more to them in a good way. first thing u put into ur mouth, fruits. last thing u put into ur mouth, vegetables. u need the cleansing to let your blood flow smoothly so that it's not stuck or block at some way where the 'karma' can manifest in a condition. u need the practice of holding on to ur gluttony desires. 

and in a way, this will let u practice more self control in other things. reduce intake of salt. ur body have it's own natural salt. if it's excessive, u sweat and dat's why it's salty. in a way, salt let u be heavier and ur kidneys work harder to process the extra salt. if u wish to go for mantra chanting, stick to one so that u r focus, it's ur best time to pick up one too.
 

the 2nd 2.5 - control your mind
let it be calm and watch your problems from above. solutions will come when ur mind is calm and not panic in time of adverse sudden changes. it's time for more simple healthy lifestyle. it's time for that tired gross dirty body of yours to have it's engine overhaul for detoxification. cleanse more so that positive energy can be filled by the universe. 

it is for u to learn how to face your problems and solve it like an adult, for u to get the wisdom behind the experience and for u to see the other side of the coin. welcome it so that it won't bother u again. it either enhance your good points or let u learn a thing or two about ur weakness and how to not do it again, whatever prob u think there is. from illness, to self happiness in terms of r/ships, to career change, or whatever.

diet cleansing, not the flour made vegetarian food that commercialism took over. it's just simple fresh fruits, vegetables, nuts, honey, coconut and alkaline food that is taken at the right time of the day. general time will be 7.30am, 11.30am, 3.30pm and 7.30pm at small potions. be one with nature, yeah go exercise that bum of urs, 

don't be lazy. and lastly, do some form of charity where u have to sweat it out. last but not least, stay low profile, solitude if u can, for u to reconnect back with ur own self. see this part, it's kinda long, it indicates the significance of this phase.
 

the last 2.5 years - the aftermath, if u ever have any.
time to do self reflect, clear up the unhappy memories and slowly come out of ur shell. if the above lifestyle have significantly improve your overall health physically n mentally, stick to it for health = wealth. healthy body means ability to find back the wealth u've lost in the past 5 years, so u have to take care of ur body at the previous 5 years, for u to embrace the last stage of this 2.5 years.

however, if u have not been preparing for the previous stage up to now, it's not too late. and u might need a little help.

u can email to me ur chart if u have, or ask more details on this at o_scarlai@yahoo.com . only remedy for sade sati related questions will be entertain for the meantime, as i've limited time for free consultation so first come, first serve basis, depending on my free time, and all emails will be answered, although i might be late so thank you for understanding!